Want to Buy A Home? Get Pre-Approved First!

If you've read my other blog postings you'll see that there is an order of things with regards to purchasing a home.  You need to get your ducks in a row.  And, to quote an old standby, you shouldn't go off half-cocked.

My last posting talked about finding a agent before trying to find a home.  Are you with me so far?  What's next?  Start looking at homes?  Absolutely not!  The next thing you need to do, unequivocally, is to find a good mortgage lender and get pre-approved!

One would think this be obvious.  Why would anybody look at homes (or anything, for that matter) if

they don't have enough money, or don't have any money?  This is not just about common sense, mind you.  It's about getting yourself in a position to be able to move on a property when you find what you want.  It's about being strategic in your quest to find a home and making sure you are in a position to actually buy the home you want when you find it.

There are several reasons why you should be pre-approved by a qualified lender before you look at homes.  What are they?

1. You know you are able to purchase a home.  There is little doubt that you will get final approval from a lender if you are able to get a pre-approval.

2.  You will know what you can afford.  Do you want to spend a bunch if time looking at homes that you cannot afford?  I can assure you, your agent does not want to show you homes that are out of your price range.  You time is valuable and so is your agent's.

3.  You look like a ready, professional buyer when you make an offer.  What's the seller's biggest fear with most buyers?  That they won't offer enough?  No.  A seller's greatest fear is that you won't get approved for a loan.  A pre-approval removes almost all doubt from even the most fearful seller.

4.  If you are in a bidding war with another buyer who does NOT have a pre-approval which offer do you think the seller will take?  This one is obvious.  If you don't think this is true go make an offer on a property against another buyer who has a certified, valid pre-approval.  You will loose.

 5. Being pre-approved gives you more flexibility on the closing date.  Why is this important?  Because if the seller wants to close in (3) weeks and you aren't pre-approved it probably ain't gonna happen.  So will the seller kick your offer to the curb?  Most likely.

Do yourself a favor if you are considering buying a home: get pre-approved.  It usually doesn't cost anything and many lender can do it over the phone.  What possible reason could you  have for not doing so?

One last thing:  don't confuse the terms "pre-approval" and "pre-qualification."  Pre-approval is what you are looking for. Pre-qualification isn't worth the paper it's written on.

Good luck, and as always, happy hunting!

    

Stop Looking at Homes....

And Start Looking For an Agent!

We've all heard the expression "don't put the cart

before the horse."  Unfortunately, that is what many home buyers do.  How's that?  They go on-line to various websites and start shopping for homes.  "Jim," you say, "why is this a bad thing?"  Well, read on....

First off, as a buyer, you really want to learn what it means to actually buy a home first. There are so many things buyers, especially first-time buyers, do not know about home buying.  And many of those things can be answered by a competent buyer's agent.  The home buying process is much more complicated that just "picking a home" off of the internet and going to see it.  That really isn't the way a buyer should proceed.

It's very important as a buyer to have the proper foundation and understanding about how the process works.  I spoke about this in one of my previous postings (see: I Just Want to Look At Homes).  If you are out there just plinking around on the internet you are really not ready to buy a home.  You may think you are, but you are probably not.

Yes, I know it's fun to window shop.  I do it all of the time on E-Bay and Amazon. But as I said, that isn't really how you buy a  house.  Why?  Well, first off, if you do not have a buyer's agent and you actually see something on the internet that you want to see and potentially buy did you know the agent listing the house is working for the seller, primarily?  You can easily fall into a Dual Agency situation, which is the absolute worst situation you can be in as a buyer.  Buyers who end up in a Dual Agency situation are typically not educated buyers and they typically regret it.  Basically, this is where the agent selling the home ends up "representing" you and the seller at the same time....and gets double commission for doing it.  If you want to know more about the perils of Dual Agency just Google it.

Why else is it bad to shop for homes before having a buyer's agent?  Because much of the data that you see out there on the web is inaccurate and/or outdated.  Many of the homes you see on various "home" websites are either "in contract" or have already been sold.  Problem?  These sites are not regularly updated and the data is not in real-time.  How do you like looking at homes on a website and then finding out that half of them are already sold?  This does not happen if you have a buyer's agent that you have established a relationship with.  Why not?  Because a buyer's agent has access to the local MLS (Multiple Listing Service) which is were ALL listing data comes from.  Nothing you will find out there is as current as the MLS for your area.  It is the most accurate, real-time data base that is out there.  And in most locations the MLS can send you updates automatically as soon as they are on the market. Of course, unless you establish a relationship with a buyer's agent you can't get access to these listings.

Again, I know you like to browse.  Not a problem.  Get a buyer's agent to set you up on the MLS search so you can get all current listings and keep browsing if you want to.  Keep in mind that the data from MLS is more current, so you will see homes that show "available" that are not.  That is not a problem with the MLS, it's a problem of data management with the website that shows it as available when it's not.  Basically, all available listings will be sent to you.  If you find a listing on a website that matches your criteria but does not show up in the listings being sent to you by your buyer's agent then 99% of the time it's not available. How much time will it save you to get accurate, real-time listings and not have to keep browsing home websites hoping to find a home that you like AND that's actually available? 

A buyer's agent is also there to answer your questions and guide you in the right direction.  He/she is on your side, and is there to help you make an informed decision, not to "sell you a home."  Do you really want to continue to call/e-mail random seller's agents on these listings, hoping that they respond?  Half the time the agents don't even respond to you.  And when they do they just want to talk about how great their listing is and push you into buying it.  Is that really what you want? YOUR agent will get you the information you want in a timely manner and not try to "push" any particular home on you.  Again, your agent is in your side, and is there to help you make an informed decision based on unbiased information that he/she has provided to you, based on what you want.

Now go find yourself a good, competent, experienced buyer's agent.

I Just Want to Look at Homes

It never fails.  I constantly get e-mails and phone calls from people who "want to look at homes" - or want to look at a specific home - right now.  A potential buyer will see a home on a particular website, or driving down the street and call me or e-mail me and say, "Hi, my name is John.  I saw a home on ABC website.  I want to see it.  When can you show it to me?"  That's typically how the conversation starts.  Every agent's dream, right?  A hot-to-trot buyer, ready to go, already has a home picked out.  Not so fast....

Some buyers need to be educated.  Most that contact me in the above manner do not understand how the process works.  It's not as simple as "I'm a buyer, there's a house, show it to me."  If, in fact, you are a buyer who "just wants to see houses" then you need to find an agent who "just shows houses."  In that case, I am not the right agent for you.  Let me explain.

Don't I show houses to people?  Isn't that what I do?  Why can't I just "show you a house?"  Well, I could.  But I prefer not to.  Why?  Because you probably aren't ready to buy a house.  Are you pre-approved with a lender?  Have you established a relationship with your "own" agent, or are you randomly calling agents?  Do you even know what you can afford?  Do you understand the steps in the process of buying a home?    If you answered "no" to any of these questions, you are not ready to buy a home, and therefore, shouldn't be actually looking at homes in person (vs. browsing on the Internet or driving around).

I realize that it's easy to get excited when you are window shopping.  Many people window shop for things when they are not quite ready to purchase.  And there are lots of websites out there that have homes for sale.  I'm not trying to kill the American Dream here, or trying to burst your bubble.    But buying a home is different from, say, buying a big screen t.v. or buying a car.  You can't learn the ins-and-outs of buying a home on line.  You can't research specific homes because every home is unique, vs. finding a certain t.v., finding the place where it has the best price, and just going a buying it.  Buying a home is different.  You really need to understand the process before you start looking at homes.  It can be complicated and treacherous if you do not know what you are doing.  There are many mistakes that first-time buyers have made that they have regretted later: mistakes that have cost them time, money, and even the home of their dreams.  I know, there are plenty of agents who will "just show you homes" if that is all you want.  Just make a few calls, you will find them pretty easily.  Not to mention the fact that if you're just calling on listings on a website that some of the agents you are calling are working for the seller, and not for you.  But that's another story (see my previous blog postings).

Most agents are salespeople.  You want to "buy" a home.  They will "sell it to you."  Great, deal done.  Or is it?

I don't "sell homes," I educate people on how to buy homes.  I give them the tools they need so that they can make an informed decision when the time comes.  I take them through the process from A to Z in the very beginning, before we even look at a single home.  I give my clients an edge that other buyers don't have because I lay the foundation upon which everything else will be built.  My clients are savvy, educated and informed.  They come to me looking for someone who will educate them and guide them through the process of buying (or building) a home.  I am their guide, counselor and instructor.  And I am their advocate.

So, going back to my description in the first paragraph, I have a real challenge.  When I get calls and e-mails from people who are hot-to-trot I try to ask a few relevant questions and see if I can guide them back to a starting point, one that they have missed.  The first thing I ask them is if they are pre-approved with a lender.  If they are not, back to square one.  Why would you consider looking at a home if you are not even pre-approved?  No seller would ever see you as a serious buyer.  And frankly, neither would any agent worth their salt.  Regardless if a potential buyer is pre-approved, or not, my first goal is to get them to meet with me so we can go through the process and make sure they are in the best position to buy a home.  And if they say "no" and "well, I really just want to see this home"  that is usually the end of the conversation if I can't get them to come in and meet with me first.  At that point I know, for the most part, that they are not serious buyers.  If they can't spend an hour of their time learning about the most important financial transaction of their life then I really don't have time for them.  And they usually don't seem to mind.  They can always find an agent, one not like me, who will just "show them homes." 

So, if you are considering buying a home get your ducks in a row!  Become an educated and informed buyer first and you will be in the best position to buy the best home for you at the right time.      

      

To Buy or Not to Buy?

One question that eventually comes up with almost every one of my clients during the home-search process is "should we make an offer on this house?"  In other words, what they are really asking is "is this the best we are going to find or should we keep looking?"  Once again, I have to dig out the crystal ball.....

The answer to that question has many facets.  Whether I tell a client "yes, maybe you should" or "well, maybe not" really depends on the individual situation. I never try to answer this question for my clients but I try to put the question in perspective.

Here are some of the variables that factor in that question:

• How long have you been looking?
• How many houses have you seen so far?
• How does this house compare to everything else you have seen?
• Does it "feel" like it could be the "right" one?*
• If you don't make an offer, what are your options?  Is there anything else out there that you like?
• Can you live with this one?
• If nothing better comes up will you be disappointed that you didn't try for it?
• Does it meet most of your needs and some of your "wants?"
• How long are you willing to wait for the "right" one if this one may not be exactly the "right" one?

There are many different answers to these questions and any given time.  It's really hard to ever say that a particular home is the "right" one.  You may never know that for sure, partially because there may be no right "one," but there may be several homes out there that will meet most, if not all, of your needs.  If you feel that there can only be one "right one" your criteria may be a little narrow.  If you are being realistic about your potential purchase you will probably find that there are usually a few homes that will work for you.  That is really the best position to be in.  If you think "that's the one!" and you end up not getting it everything else will pale in comparison and you'll never be satisfied with another home after that.  

I mentioned "wants" and "needs."  Drawing the line between "wants" and "needs" can be a challenge.  I try to help people realize that needs are more important, and that sometimes what we define as a "need" is really a "want."  This becomes pretty evident when you have a certain price point and you find, as a buyer, that your just not going to get all of your desires in your price range.  Things that were originally  "needs" sometimes become "wants" as you look through homes and take notes.  We all have to make sacrifices when purchasing a home.  Nobody ever gets all of their needs and all of their wants.  Like the old saying goes "you can't get a champagne house on a beer budget."   They key lies in making an honest assessment of your own wants and needs and in understanding the market in your price range (what can I get for my money).  If you can do that you will have a pretty good idea when a house might just be the "right" one for you, or at lease one that meets most of your criteria and that is a good value for what you are looking for.

So, is something better going to come along?  Well, that's hard to say.  Have listings been coming on the market that meet your criteria?  Is this the time of year where listings are increasing, or decreasing? Have you exhausted the list of all possible homes? Are you willing to take your chances that something better will come along?  Are you willing to loose this one in hopes that something better comes along?  Do you have realistic expectations?  That last one is really important one...and might be a discussion for another day.  That being said, hopefully my comments will help you answer the inevitable question "should we make an offer....or wait?"

So You Wanna Buy a For-Sale-By-Owner (FISBO)?

Being in the real estate business you can't avoid things like For-Sale-By-Owner properties, they are part of the territory. Also known as FISBO's (pronounced "fizz-bow'), one might think that they can get a bargain if they are trying to buy one of these properties. Unfortunately, that is not always true. Typically, in my experience, it's rarely true. What is true, however, is that people who try to sell their homes on their own and Realtors don't get along very well.

Almost everything in life comes down to numbers, or math, in some form or another. Such is usually the case for the seller who just wants to sell his home on his own. So why do people decide to try to sell their homes on their own? Because they think they can save money. That's pretty much it. For-Sale-By-Owners think they can cut out the listing Realtor, and possibly the buyer's agent as well, and save a bunch on commissions. But can they? And can a buyer get a "deal" on a FISBO? Are there other concerns?

First off, it's important to understand that homes are rarely sold in an arms-length transaction without the use of a Realtor. Why is that? Well, let's say the seller doesn't want a Realtor to list his home; he want's to try and sell it on his own. That's fine. However, almost all buyers, the savvy ones anyway, have their "own" agent, a buyer's agent. Rarely will buyers undertake such an important transaction without having someone to guide them. Why should they? Why would they? Considering that buyers rarely, if ever, have to pay their agent, why wouldn't they engage the services of a knowledgeable buyer's agent? Well, they would. So, what
normally happens is that these buyers are paired up with a buyer's agent and either the agent, or they, come across a FISBO. What now? As I said, buyers don't normally "pay" their agent. This is because in most situations a buyer's agent's fee is included in the price of the home, paid (shared) by the listing agent, for any home that is listed on the MLS (multiple listing service). So, you have a situation where the seller, in this case, is not a Realtor (agent). That means the FISBO seller has no agreement to pay any fees (or commissions) to anybody. However, will buyers look at a FISBO knowing that their agent may not get paid? Will buyer's agents show a home if they are not going to get paid in the end? Can you see how complicated this can get?
In reality, most FISBO sellers will agree to pay a "buyer's agent," they just don't want to "list" the house and pay "full commission." Most of them are aware that if they don't offer a fee to the buyer's agents it will be difficult to get showings and difficult to sell. So typically FISBO sellers will say "Realtor's welcome," or "will co-op," both of which mean that they are willing to pay the agent who is representing the buyer. So in essence, they may save partial commission, the commission that they didn't pay the listing Realtor. So is this a good deal for a buyer? I mean, if the seller doesn't have to pay a "full" commission, they will sell the house for less, right? Hardly. Did I mention that most FISBO sellers are  mostly motivated by money? 99% of the time if a buyer purchases a For-Sale-By-Owner the seller just pockets the extra commission they saved by not paying their own Realtor. Savings rarely get passed on to the buyer. So where are the savings to the buyer? Typically, there aren't any. In addition to not getting a discount from a FISBO purchase, sellers who attempt sell on their own notoriously over-price their homes. They always think their houses are better than the ones up and down the block. And occasionally they have some strange ways of coming to their asking price. Rarely does a FISBO seller accurately price their home due to lack of understanding, lack of knowledge, or just plain stubbornness. Ultimately, these homes are NOT a value for a buyer. And along with over-valuing their homes and being overly -thrifty (read: cheap), they usually do not understand how to negotiate a sale and they also rarely budge on their asking price. (Note: many FISBO sellers are not very motiveated to sell, either).  And some FISBO sellers seem downright paranoid that some  pesky buyer's agent is trying to get his clients, the buyers, a fair price on a home. That doesn't seem to resonate with most FISBO sellers that I've encountered. In the end, if the sellers save a few bucks on commission and sell for what they want, don't they save money? Isn't that goal in the first place?

Well, the answer is really "no." The main problem with true For-Sale-By-Owner homes is that they aren't marketed very well, if at all. Even with the internet it is difficult to find a For-Sale-By-Owner home, even if you are looking for one. These sellers are competing with the marketing power of thousands of Realtors in their local market. The bottom line is that buyers rarely find these properties. And that means they sit on the market, and eventually they end up being listed with a Realtor anyway. I would guess that 90% of homes that try to go FISBO end of being listed eventually (I read that stat just today). That means that the seller will now have to pay "full" commission anyway. And what about all of the lost market time, where the house just sat? It seems like, to me, that FISBO sellers who eventually list with an agent do so after six to twelve months. That's more mortgage payments, more upkeep, and potentially missed opportunities to buy something else because you couldn't sell your home fist.
In the end, there are rarely any savings to be had if you are a buyer considering buying a For-Sale-By-Owner home. But if you must buy one, proceed cautiously, know the value, and make sure you have a buyer's agent!